Herd helper: Morgan mare to the rescue

There’s one in every crowd, right? We’ve all known parents who loved to brag on their kids. And how many horse owners are particularly proud of their own horses?

OK, count me in.

I love arriving at the stables and being greeted with a good report about our horse. She’s a sweet Morgan mare, who is trusty enough to pack kids and adults around for riding lessons. She’s done some hippotherapy too. She’s that sweet.  (Morgans rock. But I digress.)

Sure, she can raise a ruckus, when she feels like it.

This past weekend, she actually spooked a bit. (It lasted about 5 seconds, while she scooted maybe 3 feet.) She’s a horse, after all, and it’s almost springtime. Plus, someone tossed up the big garage-like barn door without warning.

But this horse is well-trained and sort of senior and generally doesn’t seem to want to expend the effort it takes to kick up her heels much. (At this season of her life, she is willing to give me some good go, but I definitely have to ask for it.)

She was a hero the other day.

A barn staffer actually used the word “hero.” How funny is that?

This gentle mare is kind of bossy in the herd. We’ve never seen her rear or kick or bite. She doesn’t have to. She has mastered “the look.” You know. It’s the same look your toughest teacher had down. All she had to do with turn her head with that face on, and you knew she meant business.

That’s it exactly.

In this horse’s herd, there’s a chestnut mare who likes to play hard-to-catch at coming-in time. Maybe she forgets her filled feed bucket and a pile of hay await her in the stall. Perhaps she just loves staying outside. For whatever reason, she’s made this a game.

The other day, the barn staff had had enough of that.

The chestnut mare bolted and darted and wove her way around the pasture, while these folks tried to catch her. She was having none of it.

So one of these wranglers walked back into the barn and retrieved my horse from her stall. They led her out into the pasture again. They tossed some loose hay on the ground, and she began to munch it. Almost immediately, the errant one came alongside her turnout pal. The humans led my mare towards the gate, and the other followed. 

Soon, these folks were able to slip a rope over her neck and hold her for haltering.

That’s all it took.

Because sometimes it’s more fun to follow a friend home at the end of the day than to prolong the inevitable by breaking curfew. Something like that.

In any case, I was pleased with the good report about my own horse. She’s a keeper.

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NEIGH: 5 ways to support one whose horse has died

A handful of heartfelt hints for encouraging a grieving horse lover

Our long-time beloved family horse died several months ago, and I still miss him. This loss also revived my sorrow over losing my very first horse, a challenging, but life-changing and once-in-a-lifetime mare, several years ago. I just heard that a once-naughty little show pony, who taught me to jump fences, was euthanized yesterday. And a dear old gelding, belonging to a barn pal, is struggling to stay standing today.

To a horse lover, losing an equine companion can be every bit as grief-worthy as the passing of a human family member or a close friend.

What can caring folks do or say to support someone who has just lost a horse?

Here are five ways to reach out to a grieving horse lover. For simplicity’s sake, let’s use a horse acronym, “NEIGH.”

N = Never nicker.

Why do people always seem to practice verbal calisthenics, stretching for all sorts of inappropriate things to say when others are mourning? A grieving horse owner is not likely to be encouraged by trite sayings, lame platitudes, personal horror stories of lost horses, or even unwelcome advice while enduring the pits of grief.

E = Ears forward.

The most sensitive and caring friends offer to listen to the mourning horse lover’s stories of grief, veterinary nightmares and even happy memories shared with the horse that has died – even if those stories are repeated numerous times.

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I = Instincts are insightful.

Often, simply sharing silent moments of unspoken understanding can be a marvelous way of showing compassion for the one who has just lost a much-loved horse.

G = Gallop in with good deeds.

When a horse has died, several difficult tasks may await the equine’s owner. Helpful friends may offer to pitch in at such moments, if appropriate.

For example, the grieving horse lover may need assistance in cleaning out the horse’s stall, packing up saddles and tack, or making arrangements for the horse’s remains. These responsibilities can be extremely emotional for the one who is mourning, but a close friend may be able to help.

When my own horse died, two barn friends stayed with me by a front pasture gate, visiting with other favorite horses, while her remains were removed from the back of the barn. The sight would have been a difficult memory to erase.

H = Hearken the herd.

Equestrian stables tend to be notorious for grapevine gossip, like any other close-knit community. When a horse has died, the owner’s friends can be extremely helpful by minimizing this, while compassionately informing those who will most sympathize with what has happened (with the owner’s permission). By running interference, so to speak, for the grieving horse lover, these companions may enlist additional encouragers.

These five simple steps can go a long way towards expressing care and concern for the mourning horse owner. Naysayers may beg to differ, but equine experience speaks volumes on the subject. 

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During my own season of mourning the loss of my mare, I welcomed and valued the friends who offered no unsolicited advice, but listened, empathized, offered assistance, and rallied other supportive horse-loving friends to do the same.

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Book Review: Bubba to the Rescue

A horse novel for preteens by Jennifer Walker

Arabian Horses are occasionally tagged stereotypically as fiery, but these intelligent and highly trainable equines may also demonstrate excellent athleticism and loyalty, as author Jennifer Walker portrays in her latest Green Meadow Series.

Bubba to the Rescue, Walker’s second installment in the young horse lover collection, hits the ground running with a story that sweeps readers up in its path. The 2011-published book opens with the wedding of the father of the protagonist, teen equestrienne Leslie Clark, and her horse trainer/barn manager, Helen Green. The happy couple fell in love in Walker’s first Green Meadow book, Bubba Goes National, also published in 2011.

Next, the tale hits the trail, as a casual ride is transformed in a few hoof beats into a fire-rescue adventure. Riding with pony pal Alex, Leslie discovers a seemingly abandoned horse in the woods after the two teens have saved a neighbor’s horse herd from a barn blaze. Fittingly, the girls name the mysterious equine Spark.

As the story unfolds, Leslie attempts to find Spark’s real owner, while helping her friends cope with such challenging real-life issues as injured animal care, teen romance, abusive relationships, death and grieving, financial responsibility, stepfamily relationships, and more.

The title focuses on Clark’s Arabian gelding Lucky (or Bubba), which the teen rider purchased at auction in the first book. But Walker’s plotline focuses much more on Clark, her family, her friends, and the strange new horse known as Spark. With each page turn, readers are left to wonder when Bubba will enter the story again.

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This book reviewer received a complimentary copy of the book described and evaluated here, although the reviewer has no prior or existing relationship (either familial or professional) with the author or publisher.

Walker’s Bubba to the Rescue is penned for young teen readers, but the story may appeal to older horse-loving readers as well. Although this book is a sequel, per se, the story also stands alone for readers who may have missed the first book.

Published by Twin Trinity Media, Bubba to the Rescue includes several drawings by illustrator Debra Torrico, who created the cover art for the book. Torrico also illustrated Bubba Goes National.

About the Author: Jennifer Walker

Horse lover Jennifer Walker is the author of Bubba to the Rescue, Bubba Goes National, and Leslie and the Lion. Her articles have appeared in Arabian Horse Times, Horseman’s News, Modern Arabian Horse and Sierra Style. Jennifer Walker has published short stories in Elements of the Soul and The Ultimate Horse Lover.

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12 things we'd like to see at the 2017 Midwest Horse Fair

We just returned from the 2016 Midwest Horse Fair, which marked the second year with the spiffy new pavilions at the Alliant Energy Center in Madison, Wisconsin. Put on by the Wisconsin Horse Council, this event comes up in mid-April each year, drawing hundreds of horses, equine experts, and commercial exhibitors. Oh, and tens of thousands of horse lovers.

The Midwest Horse Fair people know how to put on an exciting and popular equestrian event, marketed as the “one of the largest three-day horse fairs in the country.”

They do a lot of things well – attracting big-name clinicians, drawing and managing crowds, and representing the unofficial start to the warm-weather (read: outdoor) equestrian season in the Midwest. This year, the wonderful weather actually arrived in time and was a big bonus. Record-breaking attendance totals are anticipated. (UPDATE: Attendance was 62,000+ and did break previous records.)

In light of the many pluses, it may be easy to forget about some potential areas for improvement. But we noticed a few. Here are a dozen notes we’d love to offer for next year’s Midwest Horse Fair, which happens to be themed “Wonder Horse.” We think these changes might make the equine event more wonderful than ever.

1. Folks are craving more horse/human interaction – In years past (before the new pavilions), fairgoers walked through the various horse barns, ducking past and petting horses of all kinds. The new layout keeps equines and non-exhibitors separate, with horses banned from the center aisles of the two pavilions. Exhibitors must deliberately lead their horses well out of the way of attendees to get to the performance arenas.

That means non-horsey people who go to the horse fair to interact up close with horses may be disappointed. Most only get to see horses through stall bars and while the beautiful animals perform in the various arenas. Sure, the new way may be safer, keeping baby strollers out from under cross-tied horses, but it sure feels sterile. It would be nice to find ways to encourage safe, but authentic, friendly horse-human interaction.

2. Please label the pavilion aisles – Sure, breed/discipline group stall assignments are listed in the printed program, as are the showcased stallions. But who wants to walk around the Midwest Horse Fair with his or her nose buried in the program book? Why not make it super-simple for exhibitors and attendees to find their desired group?

During the horse fair, a sign with stall numbers hangs above each end of every aisle in the two pavilions. How about adding an index to each sign, listing which groups may be found in that aisle? If we want to find the Buckskin, Friesian, or Rocky Mountain group, that would be so much easier!

3. We’d love to have meet-and-greets with equestrian exhibitors – How cool would it be, if horse fair attendees had the opportunity to slip outside after a breed/discipline demo and introduce themselves to those who had performed? Why not set up a corral or tent and encourage riders to linger for 15-20 minutes with their horses?

Clearly, several participants are somewhat rushed, if they are slated to show in multiple clinics and demos. But that idea may merit revisiting as well, as a means of encouraging more exhibitors to join the weekend lineup.

4. Let’s mix it up with some missing horse breeds – Can you say, “Belgian, Holsteiner, Icelandic, Missouri Fox Trotter and … wait for it … Thoroughbred?” If the Midwest Horse Fair staff took a survey of all who attended, don’t you wonder what percentage might say they currently or once had off-the-track Thoroughbreds? What a missing piece this has long been at the horse fair, even if rumor has it a group may be on-deck for 2017. We’ve been asking for years, and now our old OTTB (who did a peppy Liberty jaunt and a training clinic there several years ago) is retired, so we’ll miss the chance.

Sure, the Paints, Pintos (Nope, they’re not the same thing.), and Quarter Horses are popular and fun to watch in breed/discipline demos, liberty performances, and stallion showcases. We adore the Arabians and the Morgans and even the Morabs. Can we make room for some additional (or even exotic) equine breeds?

By the way, we became immediate fans of Ben Hur De Bernaville, the Boulonnais stallion. What a fabulous horse and interesting breed! Let’s celebrate this diversity of horses we love.

Ben Hur De Bernaville

5. We wish you’d put the top clinicians back in the Expo Center atrium – Maybe it’s a marketing strategy to lure horse fair attendees to venture into the massive and crowded expo hall. This year, the clinicians with booths seemed to be scattered throughout the miscellaneous sales exhibits. Frankly, we never even found a few of the key folks we had hoped to see, and we walked every single aisle.

In years past, many of the top draws had spacious booths in the main hallway, where horse fair attendees could interact more freely with these expert horsemen and horsewomen. Photo ops and informal Q and A chats were frequent – not to mention a certain big-name horseman’s unique form of altar call. (He wasn’t there this year. Last year, it was almost a religious experience – at least for his disciples.)

6. Please add a trailer loading workshop – We aren’t even gonna mention the wiffle bat incident from a few years back (Oops, guess we mentioned it. Not our story, but you can see the 2012 news report here.). Let’s just say we’ve seen so many non-violent, but frustrating, loading struggles (including certain equestrian professionals, whom we won’t name) that we think this might be a successful session all around.

7. Why not group vendor booths categorically? – This ranks high on our wish list, even if the seemingly random booth assignments may be intended to draw attendees to view more merchandise displays, while searching for their favorite spots. Wouldn’t it be handy to visit feed vendors, horse health experts, tack sellers, barn builders, souvenir shops, and other marketers by topical group?

8. Can you call back one of the entertaining team hitches? – In recent years, these have included the Express Clydesdales, the Smokin’ 6, Wells Fargo, and Percheron Thunder (our own favorite, in part because rock-star horseman Jason Goodman saved our horse’s life during a horse fair load-out mishap a few years back). Jason’s been at the Madison event plenty, but when he and his team race into the coliseum, it’s standing room only, gang.

9. Two words: Mustang Challenge. ‘Nuff said. We love this crowd favorite, and it’s an important effort.

10. Keep signing up favorite clinicians – This year, the Midwest Horse Fair did an especially good job with this, bringing a bunch of fresh or not-recently-seen talent (such as Patrick King, John and Josh Lyons, and Stacy Westfall) and some returning favorites (like Guy McLean, Steffen Peters, and Aaron Ralston). Dan James was missed, but he was busy getting married that weekend and breaking the hearts of 20-something horsewomen everywhere. (Seriously, his bride is a gem.)

Keep the great talent coming, Midwest Horse Fair. How about catching Buck Brannaman, while he’s in Madison this fall, and locking him in for next year’s roster? Please get Julie Goodnight, Cal Middleton, Monty Roberts, and Warwick Schiller on the line. And hello, Tommie Turvey? (It’s been awhile.)

11. We dream that you’ll bring back the evening extravaganza shows – Sure, the PRCA rodeos sell out. But folks still complain about missing the pull-out-all-the-stops night performances, when the top clinicians and popular trainers and talented amateurs showed their best stuff. Do we really need two nights of rodeo, especially when we can likely catch the same action at our local county fairs each summer?

12. Someone’s gotta fix the dangerous stall setup – OK, this is an Alliant Energy Center issue, rather than a Midwest Horse Fair concern, but it bears mention. Apparently, a fix is in the works, but it comes after this year’s horse fair. About a month prior a fabulous show horse (owned by a personal friend of ours) was euthanized after tearing his leg open and severing a tendon on the top of one of the new stalls. Sure, it was a freak accident. But it was tragic.

The stall top was apparently sharp, as that’s where the statuesque Saddlebred was injured. In addition, the stall design features an open-rail design. One has to wonder if a horse might trap a hoof between the rails. And how many horse owners want their equines rubbing noses and sharing unblocked airspace with unfamiliar equines on several sides, particularly in light of perennial EHV-1 concerns?

(READ: 10 ways to cut your horse’s risk of EHV-1 – Equine Herpes Virus)

When the Midwest Horse Fair opened (a month after the Saddlebred’s demise), many of the exhibitors had no idea about the potential horse injury hazard (or the sad incident) in the show stalls at the Alliant Energy Center until several saw a TV news report the night before the event opened.  (This would be after they had already settled their own horses into their stalls at the show grounds). Some followed the Saddlebred group’s example and adapted their horse fair stalls for safety. Others seemed unaware.

We wish to assume the stall safety situation will be remedied before the next horse show at that venue - which will be long before the 2017 horse fair.

That’s a wrap – our 12 things we’d like to see at next year’s event.

Looking forward to the 2017 Midwest Horse Fair!

We’ll be back. We might even bring a horse again. (We’ve skipped a year or two.)

The Midwest Horse Fair may not accept or implement all of these suggestions. Hey, they may not even read them. Still, for what it’s worth, this is our wish list for next year.

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